Roller Derby

July 18, 2014

Behind The Smile

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Behind the Smile:

Let me first start off by saying that I wish derby would have made a comeback 10-15 years ago as I am in the derby 40 year and older group. Needless to say it has been hard and frustrating at times. I have wanted to quit on a couple of occasions justifying to myself that I am just too old for this, my body cannot take it; I cannot keep up with the younger skaters, blah blah, blah. Well I am still here, still fighting, still working out at the gym 5 days a week and skating, becoming stronger and there is no way I am quitting now. I will quit when I can no longer pick myself up off the floor or tie my own skates. By the way I am almost 49.

On the surface I am always smiling, laughing, goofing off but what a lot of people do not know about me is what is behind my smile. Behind my smile are a lot of tears, hardships, and battles big and small. There are also a lot of happy things.

Behind my smile is:

Moving 15 times before I graduated high school because my dad changed jobs making it almost impossible to make friends or get attached. I still have a hard time.

The disappointment my parents must have felt when I got pregnant at a young age and ruined any chance for medical school to become a surgeon.

Raising my oldest son as a single mom with not enough money for me to eat at times and having to sleep on the floor because I could not afford a bed or saving change to put into my gas tank to get to work. I would not change a single moment.
Spending the last moments of my mom’s life on this earth at the age of 56; holding her in my arms and telling her it was okay for her to leave that we would be okay and I would take care of everyone. I still miss her every day. She loved derby and would have been my biggest fan.

Loneliness and sadness I feel now that both my boys are moved out and on their own. I think it is called empty nest syndrome. I do not see them nearly enough.

Stress and anxiety I feel now that I am finishing my medical degree because I worry I am not good enough or smart enough. Even though my mom has passed away I am still trying to make her proud. So afraid of failing.

Behind my smile is:

How proud I am of both my boys. My youngest son who is 19 has a daughter who is the sunlight of my life and he is a great daddy. My oldest son is expecting a baby in December.

I have found and married the most wonderful man who supports me in anything I do.
The fact that I am absolutely terrified of birds but I have an 82 lb pit bull.
I am addicted to gum.
I do not like food to touch on my plate and have actually made dividers out of napkins at a restaurant on many occasions embarrassing everyone.
I am afraid to sleep with the closet door open.
I sleep with a teddy bear named boo bear that I have had since the 4th grade.
I found derby and I am obsessed with it. It could not have happened at a better time
I am from Texas and would love to move back there someday.

I have four tattoos. I have two dolphins on my lower back one for each son. They are my favorite mammal. I have a tattoo of our horse Freckles who lived to be an old happy horse; I have a Dallas Cowboy star on my hip. I love the Cowboys and tried out for the cheerleaders in my twenties. I didn’t make it so now I am thinking of turning it into a butterfly. Lastly I have my derby tattoo of a pin up version of Alice. I plan on adding to her.

My two boys and I are getting matching tattoos. Design still in the works.

I picked my name Alice In Pummelland because Alice in Wonderland was my favorite story as a girl growing up (still is) because to me it is a story about personal growth just like derby. Alice starts off unsure, scared, and doubtful but she grows as I have with every adventure, every fall, every practice into a strong, beautiful girl who can kick butt and anything life throws at me.

Alice In Pummelland #54

Visit my fundraising roller derby show at Eye Lounge at 5th Street and Roosevelt
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